Sunday, April 13, 2014

The Crossroads Between Should and Must

Looking at my life I always choose must. People constantly tell me what I should do but I don't like having things decided for me. It's no way to live life being told what to do all the time. I think that making your own desicions is what sets you apart from other people. I like to take risks which is very useful because you never know what could happen most of the time if you do it right you end up exactly where you want to be. Nothing is better than having exactly what you want in life in the palm of your hands. As Ella Luna said "Must is who we are, what we believe, and what we do when we are alone with our truest, most authentic self. It’s our instincts, our cravings and longings, the things and places and ideas we burn for, the intuition that swells up from somewhere deep inside of us. Must is what happens when we stop conforming to other people’s ideals and start connecting to our own." 

Should is just an excuse for putting off your dreams. I think that must is always the way to go. Must means you are finally making your dream a reality and no one can stop you. It's because you set your mind to it that it's actually happening. For me, I take must seriously. It's not always easy and a simple process but it's worth it. Everyone has always tried to tell me what to do with my life and where to go and what to be. I never wanted any of the options people laid out for me. I was always thinking of something different something that I would enjoy. I see myself headed the right direction. I am headed to a cosmetology school because I want to be a makeup artist. I've also done makeup tutorials on YouTube and taken steps to get my work out there. 

In conclusion, must is always a better option that should. Taking a step toward must means you are doing what you want. You are doing what you know is right instead of listening to what other people are saying. It's scary but it's right. 

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